You love your children equally, so naming both to manage your trust can feel like the fairest choice. But sharing an inheritance and sharing responsibility for it are different decisions. Here’s how to choose a workable arrangement without turning the choice into a measure of your love. Read more...

You want your spouse to be cared for and your children to receive the inheritance you intend for them, without putting the people you love on opposite sides of a financial decision. In a second marriage, “everything to my spouse, then to the kids” deserves a closer look. Here are the choices that help turn both promises into a plan. Read more…

Your life is partly online now: bills, photos, tax records, subscriptions, loyalty points, even the tools that run your household. But leaving someone a password is not the same as giving them a plan. This October, during Cybersecurity Awareness Month, start with the digital accounts your family would need to find, protect, and understand if you could not manage them yourself. Read more...

You bought life insurance to care for the people you love. But should the money go directly to your spouse or through your trust? The answer starts with what your family needs the money to do, not a rule that one choice is always better. Read more...

 If spouses die together or days apart, survivorship rules can change who inherits. Learn what your estate plan should address before a family crisis occurs.

Your child is a doctor, lawyer, founder, or other successful professional. Leaving their inheritance outright often feels like the respectful choice, but their success brings risks that direct ownership does not protect against. Here’s when an inheritance trust for adult children can protect what you built without treating a capable adult like a child. Read more...

You bought life insurance because you wanted the people you love to be protected. But the policy you chose years ago may no longer match the family, finances, or estate plan you have today. Here’s what a life insurance beneficiary review can reveal before your family needs the money. Read more...

You built your IRA to give your family security and opportunity. But if it passes to a trust, SECURE Act rules can force withdrawals faster while retained income reaches the 37% federal bracket at just $16,000 in 2026. Here's what to review before one form changes what your wealth can do.

You did it. 

Maybe Make-A-Will Month finally moved it to the top of your list. Maybe you've been meaning to get this done for years and this was the month it finally happened. Either way, you sat down, signed the documents, and walked out with something most families never get around to.

That matters. I mean it.

But here's what I tell every client who comes to me after making a will somewhere else: most families think the job is done. They sign the documents, file them away, and assume they're covered. Then something happens, and they find out how much the will didn't do.

If you made a will, this is your checklist for what comes next.

The Cosby Show star Malcolm-Jamal Warner left $1.2M in unfulfilled premarital promises. Here’s what a Personal Family Lawyer® firm would have done differently.

A will is an important first step, but it may not protect your family from probate, incapacity, or gaps in guardianship. Learn what a complete plan requires.

You've heard the phrase: "Friends don't let friends drive drunk." The same logic applies to estate planning. According to Caring.com, only 24 percent of Americans have a will. For some of the people you love most, you may be the only person in their life who will ever bring this up. Here's how to do it without making it weird, and what to tell them about what real planning looks like.

August is National Make a Will Month, which means this is exactly the right time.

The federal government is depositing $1,000 into savings accounts for every baby born between January 1, 2025 and December 31, 2028. The account is called a Trump Account, contributions opened July 4, 2026, and most families have not yet taken the step to claim it. Here is what it is, how to open one, and what it means for your family's plan.

You've brought it up before. Maybe it came up after watching a friend go through something hard, a probate process that dragged on for years, or a family left scrambling without the right documents in place. Maybe a health scare prompted the conversation, or a birthday that snuck up faster than expected. Whatever brought it to mind, you've tried to talk to your spouse about getting a plan in place.

And it went nowhere.

Not because they were openly against it. Maybe they changed the subject. Maybe they agreed and then nothing happened. Maybe they said, "We don't need to worry about that yet," and somehow that became the final word on the matter. Whatever the reason, nothing is in place, and you feel stuck.

Most families believe they will inherit their loved one’s debt. Most debt collectors count on that fear. Your debt does not automatically transfer to your heirs, but it shapes how much they receive and what the estate must pay before they get anything. Here is exactly what happens and what your family needs to know before the collectors call. Read more…

The One Big Beautiful Bill raised the estate tax exemption to $15 million per person. That provision made headlines everywhere. A second one didn't: a deduction limitation buried in a Congressional footnote that tax lawyers say may create double taxation inside family trusts, including special needs trusts with as little as $400,000 in assets. Here is what families with trusts need to know right now. Read more…

Most online accounts now require two steps to log in. The first step is the password. The second step is a verification code sent to a trusted device or phone number at the moment someone tries to access the account.

This is called two-factor authentication, and it has become the standard security requirement for financial accounts, investment platforms, email providers, and cloud storage. It is one of the most effective protections against fraud and identity theft.

It is also one of the most common reasons families cannot access accounts after a death. The person trying to log in has the password. But the verification code goes to a phone that is locked, a number that no longer works, or an email address that no longer exists.

If you are a divorced father, you already know something that most married fathers don't: showing up for your kids takes more deliberate effort than it looks like from the outside.

You have worked on the relationship you have with them. You know which weeks are yours and how to make them count. You have figured out the handoffs, the schedules, and the way to stay present even when circumstances make it complicated.

What I find almost universally, when a divorced father walks into my office, is that the one thing he has not done is update his estate plan to match the life he is actually living. The plan from before the divorce, or the one hastily put together during it, is almost certainly not the plan his children actually need.

If you are a stepfather, you know the difference between the legal definition of father and the real one.

The real one shows up. He learns the allergies, the fears, and the names of the friends. He drives to the practices and sits through the recitals and knows which child needs quiet when they're upset and which one needs noise. He considers these children his family, and they consider him theirs.

The legal definition is something else entirely. Under the law, a stepparent has no automatic legal relationship to a stepchild. Not unless that child has been formally adopted. No matter how many years you've shown up. No matter what you call each other. The law has no record of what you've built.

That gap, between the family you live in and the family the law recognizes, is the one a plan has to close.

There are two kinds of fathers.

The first kind coaches the games, makes it to the school plays, stays up late helping with the projects, and loves his family in every visible way. He thinks about what would happen if something happened to him: maybe during a long drive home, maybe after a close call, maybe in a quiet moment watching his kids sleep. He thinks about it and then moves on, because the day-to-day of being a father takes up almost everything he has.

Father's Day tends to celebrate the first kind. The presence, the showing up, the love that fills a room. 

The second kind does all of that and also answers the question.

The fathers who've truly done right by their families, the ones who've given their children something that outlasts them, are the ones who made a plan. Not because they expected the worst, but because they understood that loving someone means protecting them even when you can't be there.

If you haven't answered the question yet, this is where to start.